While there’s nothing wrong with domination if done right, sometimes the line between domination and being demeaning can get blurred.” Meanwhile, in a lot - not all but definitely a lot - of straight porn, there’s this idea that someone has to be demeaned, and generally that’s the female party. So yes, straight women are super-into guys fooling around, but does male-on-male porn have the same allure to straight men? As far as we’ve come on gender and sexual identity issues, there’s still a serious “no-homo” presence in the straight-guy community. Sixty-one-year-old Gunther, a retiree in Miami, discovered he was interested in gay porn by accident. “I did an internet search for a name of a drag racer, Jim Head. The erotic story that came up was a bi story, and I was surprised at my arousal. One story led to another, and then to porn clips, a place I never thought I’d go,” he says. Which kind of made it more interesting to me now.” “When and where I grew up, interest in porn was a huge taboo, and gay/bi porn could have gotten you killed. Other men tell me they get turned on by looking at another guy’s dick. Scott, a 38-year-old from West Virginia, says his interest started when he was 12 or 13, when he and a buddy would watch porn and jerk off underneath their blankets. “Male mutual masturbation is hot, and something I really enjoy watching,” he explains. “I found myself obsessed with how perfect some of their cocks are and how I wish mine looked that good. There wouldn’t be much direction needed.” Guys also know what guys like and what drives them wild, so I think about that as well. That said, none of the guys I interviewed are out about their guy-on-guy porn consumption. Gunther, in fact, worries a lot about his wife finding out: “She’d castrate me if she knew I read erotic stories and watch porn. I honestly think she’d kill me if she knew it involved bi and gay porn.” Scott is equally secretive. “I just don’t think it’s that common to see a straight man voice an interest in gay porn. I think there are a lot of straight men with similar feelings as me, but they’d never admit it.What is it with some porn actors having VERY close and personal sexual relationships with other men in film and in real life as “Hustlers” and “Escorts” believing they are STRAIGHT? Is being gay the NEW STRAIGHT, and should all gay men now be identified as straight.